爱情，友情，都是情。
这两样东西有分别吗？
有谁能够画一条线来分别爱情跟友情？
你能？还是你能？
对我来说，我不知道什么时候该把友情转换成爱情。
之前当一个女性朋友对我很好时，我会误会那人喜欢我，我还会Categorise那份情成为爱情。
所以，我想借此机会对那些朋友说声对不起。
大多数的爱情都是由友情开始的；大多数的友情都是由爱情结束。
友情和爱情的共同点：
空间
爱情和友情都需要空间，当一份情没有空间，没有自由时，这份“情”就会变质。就会变成一种约束，会使两方都不开心。因为我们大家都需要自己的私人空间。
关心
关心是爱情友情的必需品，没有了关心就没有了情。适当的关心可以维持“情”，使这份“情”长久；过分的关心会变得啰嗦，破坏这份“情”。
相信（文麒，宏嫔，哲瑾，2009）
如果提份情没有信任的话，这份情绝对不是真情。怀疑在一份情里是一种障碍，有了这样一个东西在你的情里，你的情是不会长久的。你会怀疑你的另一半会在干些什么会背叛你的事吗？
了解（恒金，2009）
了解是爱情与友情的开始，当你开始知道对方的名字时，你的友情就开始了。友情会慢慢成长成为爱情。所以了解对方是必然的，免得做了一些使对方生气的事情都不知道那就惨了！
我会珍惜我们大家的友情，也希望你们能珍惜和我之间的友情。
Buenas Noches!
大家晚安!
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待续。。。。
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a song for u:
ReplyDelete相信- 孙燕姿
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSvLN3-MYTA
Didn't get the msg u want to deliver.
ReplyDelete"对我来说，我不知道什么时候该把友情转换成爱情。
ReplyDelete之前当一个女性朋友对我很好时，我会误会那人喜欢我，我还会Categorise那份情成为爱情。" --> Bro, this thing is the most common mistake. I kena it too. just got to be more observant or else really can make girl very very frustrated de.
"大多数的爱情都是由友情开始的；大多数的友情都是由爱情结束" --> this 1 got to see how both parties 包容对方。 If the break up is a mutual consent? this should not really be an issue.
"空间;关心;相信;了解" this 4? the most important basic thing to me is 了解 first. ;)
I m apple_grape ;) u know who i m bro
oh... wat i was about to say was... trust is the most important element in any relationships...
ReplyDeletewithout trust in love, u'll keep thinking whether he/she will cheat on u... as the result... you will keep checking on him/her... then he/she will feel annoyed and not trusting u and the cycle keeps going...
without trust in friendship ==> then wat's left in a friendship ah?
abt the link i sent... it's just the title is TRUST~ and it's a pretty old nice song by Stephanie... hehe.. enjoy~
haha.. well, if u think in a broader view, almost everything you do also must have some trust in it. working, studying, in a family, friends, even yourself, you have to trust either yourself or someone. the world wont turn if there is no trust around... btw.. im just commenting from your zhe jin's comment.. i might be wrong about your post.
ReplyDeletehmmm...just to share
ReplyDeleteto zhe jin's comment: "without trust in love, u'll keep thinking whether he/she will cheat on u... as the result... you will keep checking on him/her... then he/she will feel annoyed and not trusting u and the cycle keeps going..." --> hahaha... u really pieces ooo! 对她有深厚的了解，在爱情上，"相信"这方面就自然会在。